
Okay, so this really isn't Katie, but it's just to give you an idea of what I might be dealing with this next year. Katie is and always has been a tomboy. Katie is and always has been a follower. So, when we went to Open House at the middle school on Monday night, I wasn't worried when the cheerleaders paraded up front and the coach said there were more fifth grade spots available. Katie looked and me, wrinkled her nose, and said "yuck"!. Good girl! But, I mean, let's face it. In my day everybody wanted to be a cheerleader. I did. I wasn't ALLOWED to because the mom said the skirts were too shirt. But I still wanted to. But it has been so nice because Katie isn't into all the "girlie" stuff. She's very laid-back and doesn't get into all the "girlie drama." So, imagine my surprise when Gary called and said that Katie and her mom had been calling the fire station all DAY the next day telling him Katie wanted to be a cheerleader. Thanks, Christy! Good one. Let me list the lies we were told:
#1 - It doesn't cost much.
Truth - It costs about $2750, not including if they go to nationals.
#2 - Katie has cheered before.
Truth - This is what Christy called and told the coach. Katie was a mascot for a Bartlett recreation squad when she was two years old!!! I don't think that counts as cheering before.
#3 - The coach said Katie didn't have to try out for the team because she is pretty and gets along with people.
Truth - You do have to try out. Where did this lie come from???
The truth is two of Katie's best friends made the squad during tryouts and now Katie the follower wants to quit soccer and do what they do. It's not that big of a deal for me, but Gary was upset and didn't want her to quit. I'm upset because Katie thinks she's on the team and I know that she isn't. She can't even do a cartwheel!!!
I don't think I'm going to be able to look at her face tonight if she doesn't make it! I don't know if I've blogged about this, but Katie also has a learning disability and cannot read beyond a 3rd grade reading level. So, naturally Gary and I are concerned about how the busy-ness of this will affect her ability to keep up with her schoolwork. But, we also know how cruel middle school can be and this would give her something she could be good at and be successful at.
Just FYI - the other day I asked Christy for half the cost of a reading program specifically designed for children with learning disabilities that I could use with Katie this summer. (Of course if we were paid the more than $10,000 we are owed in back child support I could take it out of that)! And, she is supposed to pay half of expenses. But, I was told she didn't have the money for things like that.
So, the question is - where did she come up with the money for cheerleading? First things first, right?
But - if Katie did become a cheerleader, at least it would give me an excuse to buy Emily this...
